Anything that happens, happens.    Anything that, in happening, causes something else to happen, causes something else to happen.    Anything that, in happening, causes itself to happen again, happens again.        Shit has a tendency to happen.    This does in no way exemplify the experience of your visit.  It just means that, whatever happens, happens, and usually happens in a way to piss you off.  Just not necessarily in a meaningful, wholesome, family way.